These were the first words that K. told me during our initial Online Counseling session. “At night when our children sleep I would feel trapped unable to leave without waking them and risk letting them knows what was happening.” She continued.
Solution: family counselling is cheaper. It’s not because the therapist is any less credentialed, experienced and professional. It’s because he or she don’t have clinic-keeping costs. Also, you pay per minute and not per session. So if your phone call or chat took only 10 minutes, you only pay for 10 minutes.
In a state of despair N. said to me: “I feel like he is a pervert.” Her main question was: “Am I crazy to consider trying to go on with him at this point? Everyone in my life seems to think so”.
Did you know you can easily install cheat detecting software in your boyfriend or husband’s cell phone and computer? Technology that was once available only to government and law enforcement agencies has been made available for public use – and it is legal in many places. While you never want to make an accusation without proof, once you’ve got the evidence you need, you can take action.
Any marital advice that is offered can be used for the good of your marriage, IF you can adjust it specifically for YOUR marriage. What will help one marriage can destroy another. How can you tell if it will work for yours? That part is easy.
“I am not his freaking maid! It’s not my job to clean up his mess all the time.” J. angrily complained to me. Her voice seethingly bared all of her pent up frustration. She sounded like she was on the verge of tears from her built up frustration.
Friends and family can offer suggestions, especially if they have been through similar things in their own relationship. But, since no two relationships are the same, then you have to adjust their advice to suit your own relationship.
The bottom line is there are possibilities and there’s no reasons why you can’t try to use them. All of us have funds complications today and in some instances sacrifices should be made to go to marriage counseling mainly because it may help to your relationship. You need to seriously consider online marriage counseling though because it’s really powerful and it will certainly educate you on what has to be done to save your marriage while being cheaper.